Thursday, December 23, 2010

3 Ways to Get What You Want

  1. Always be nice to everyone. If you are always nice, even to those you hate, you give people no reason to dislike you. Then if someone for some reason does dislike you, others will think that person is crazy! If you are always kind, gracious, and giving, your superiors will appreciate it when they realize everyone should act like you do. You will always be peoples go to person, which in the beginning may be annoying, but after awhile you will notice it is worth the benefits. You will be invited to everything, more people will remember who you are, they will be slightly happier for just the smile that you give them.
  2. Say yes to the little things. Making people happy by the little things you do that make there lives easier will get you far. Say if someone really needs a shift covered at work and you know you are not busy, say yes (if it's a one time thing). They will be so gracious and will already feel as if they owe you. For another example, what if someone you know really needs a ride somewhere, like the airport. If you know you have nothing planned, take them there. Even something as small as someone needing there shoe tied while their hands are full will make a person gracious. So then when you finally ask someone for a favor they will have no reason to say no and if they do say no, they will feel guilty.
  3. Have good stories from having adventures. No one likes a boring person or someone wasting their time with a boring story. Live your life and do exciting things! Such as traveling, sky diving, road trips, etc.  Even just doing these adventurous things once will have you remembered. People will want to hear your stories because people like to hear about things they wish they would have done themselves. People live through others adventures. By being that other person you automatically become the person people want to talk to at a party or get together. By seeming so exciting, people will gladly give you what you want.

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